1 December
Instead of our typical “Somewhere out there” post, here’s a simple invitation: pause and reflect on how you’re doing with this whole perspective-taking thing.
Think of the past weekend as a testing ground. In the US it was a holiday, which means family dynamics (and old patterns) were likely in full swing.
How often did you — and the people around you — have the chance to see it both ways? How often did people invest the time and energy to do so?
When you (or they) did, what was the impact? What was the impact when you/they didn’t?
Love this prompt, Cary - such a good exercise... I was able to have some really interesting conversations about family heritage, with family members who have different pieces of the puzzle. We did a great job of sharing the elements that we each experienced firsthand, and it was hugely rewarding! Made me feel closer to the two of them, and also more proud / resolved / less frustrated by the family history.